Bare with me as english is not my first language.

Where to start? Im a typical nice guy and a beta bitch boy. Fuckin sad. I have been that all my life. But there is hope. Im getting unplugged. I have been reading in here for some months. I am almost done with TMMSP, good book. Eye opener. The reason I got here in the first place is the marriage. It has been stormy as hell. Made me google it and I ended up here. So Im still a newbe and learning.

Now looking it through TRP. My wife is an alfa widow who ride the CC. She was hitting the wall and needed a BB. Thats where I came in. We got married. I was desperate and in a bad place. She needed a provider. But she is very beautiful although low quality, which I realise now. We have been married for 1 year now and she is 3 months pregnant we are also both in our late 20´s.

Here´s the ting. Overall I am satisfied with her. She cleans the apartment, does the laundry, works and helps with economics, cooks (still learning), she takes care of her self, sex is super (anal, ass to mouth, swallow, bjs, facials, all the good stuff) ...BUT...she keeps shit testing me all the fkin time. Constantly. Drives me mad. I did not even know shittest existed. Still learning about them. But I am rly bad at passing them. Comfort test also. They are easier to pass. Compliance test to. I dont give a fuk there, just ignore. But shittest, man she is drive me insane. And besides that she is disrespectful very often.

Plz how do I behave and what do I do? Im having a hard time holding frame when she starts. I have tried to impliment some stuff from TMMSP. Some alpha moves. And guess what? Shes loving them. Crazy. I need to be more apha its just that is hard as fuk when u have been a nice guy ur whole life.

As a last note. She got PMS, she gets fukt up when its her period. How do u handle that? Just leave her alone? And the last chad she was with before we got married is a real alfa. I know the guy. They where together 2 years. Guy is ripped, got game. Kinda the whole package. I just saw him 1 month ago with 2 different girls on 2 occasions. Why would he commit right? When hes doing clean house in our town.

I think she keeps comparing me to him unconcesly. Any guidelines on how to behave in this specific situation?

One more thing is that often when she goes over the line and I react strong she stfu and becomes a kitty and complies to me. Wtf? Im going to the gym 3 times a week. Doing cardio. Buying new clothes. She is complementing me on my loss of weight. Im getting noticed by girls when Im at work, they starts to chat me upp sometimes, Im not a ugly guy, Im normal tall guy. Im a bussdriver so its a very social job although low status.

Bottomline: How to handle and stop all this shittest/comforttest/compliance test and the disrespect? Is she just high maintain? Im going insane.