I like a girl for 10 years now. In all those years I have had relationships with other girls as well. My last one was for over 4 years. And Last Christmas we tried dating but she called it off in about a month saying it is not working out. She has this other guy and he takes her out and buys her things. They even have a history. And she does things for him. Both of them are working and I am still studying so I cannot spend that kind of money to buy expensive branded things like Gucci and Armani. So it felt like she's after the money even if not consciously then subconsciously. And she knows that I have a problem with these guys being whatever they are. But she never did anything about it.

This year I did not run after her or give her much time or buy her things and gift. No dinners aswell. I just went out had some nice time.

Even stopped calling and messaging much and now she says that I am always busy. What should I do?