Lost Lamb need career

amphix339 · 2019-10-11T07:01:11+00:00

My friend you are asking for a purpose in your life. Your days are without direction and you feel like you are wasting your life. You are right. Now on top of that you are lacking one of the most important things a man needs; discipline. Stick to something and excel at it. It doesn't matter what you do, just be good.

Now that my help is out of the way, you sound like a stuck up little bitch. Early 20's you're a fully grown man, now act like it. Take some responsibility of your fucking life. You're talking like you're whining to your mother, no one gives a fuck about you. Now you can look at that in a positive or a negative way. Either "oh man no cares about me boo hoo im such a loser" or think that "no one cares where I am at life, others are getting ahead but they're not looking at me. So let me do me".

Set small goals. Work hard. Build a wall that is your life, brick by brick.

Onidramon · 2019-10-11T14:00:36+00:00

If you want good and lucrative work that fits the TRP philosophy of putting in the numbers and smashing approach anxiety like a glove, go for sales. I recommend a sales development or business development role that you can escalate into account executive status in the software as a service field. Clear well over 200k annually after a few years if you learn the game and stick with it. There's guys pulling that off who don't even have the discipline to work out, you can do that no problem

Haytch1234 · 2019-10-12T03:54:33+00:00

If there is one issue people in their 20s face ( myself included), its comparing themselves to people constantly and thinking their life is over by 25.

The truth is lots of people stagnate in their 20s-30s.

Lots of people may have the advantages early in life to get their shit together. But they may also stagnate and not want anything more?

You dont know this. Instead of dwelling on this shit go for what you want. Work for it.

In a few years you may be killing it whilst these people who you were comparing yourselves to may just stagnate and not see further progress.

Shit happens to alot of people. It happens all the time... Its about having the mental strength to deal with it and stick to your goals.

You need to see a psychologist. There is nothing worse than having your life just drift by.

I know what you are going through and I speak from experience. I had shit happen from 15-17. Then from 19-22. It wasnt until I was 25 I actually decided I really wanted to improve my life in all aspects and what ever problems I had would pale in comparison to the goals. I was completely directionless. I set myself. I finished uni 3 years later than I should have. And I cant even use my degree now.

Think long term. Your life is not just your early 20s. Your life can possibly be until 60+.

I recommend seeing a psychologist. I think you need to come to terms with the issue you lost some years to depression and this is not helping you move on. You need to let go. Take what lessons you learnt and apply them.

Title	Lost Lamb need career
Author	estrogenmilk
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	October 11, 2019 6:16 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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