Backstory: Am 25 years old and moved abroad, am a teacher and ended up getting in an LTR (currently 7 months) with my current girlfriend and there is some issues.

I've read the sidebar, but being an expat in a country where there aren't many other expats or social opportunities makes it hard.

Issues:

  • Is quite open with me about her sexual history, to the fact that it pisses me off and sometimes I cannot hide it. (i.e. saying in front of other people)
  • Hid from me that she slept with someone we work with last year, and was pissed off that I found out.
  • Was messaging a former FWB on snapchat every now and then but I told her I didn't like it and she eventually deleted him.
  • Her normal type is black guys.
  • Sex is drying up

All of the above she has said that there was no feeling involved or that they were just friends and it was purely just drunken sex bla bla bla. But she get's pissed off when girls like my instagram posts or try to message me..

How do I apply these principles when there aren't the social opportunities that I would have in my home country? I have a high SMV and workout every day, but the problem is that I don't have many friends to hang with when I'm not with her.

I feel a bit trapped by it all, I am in a 2 year contract and won't get a reference if I just up and leave, which I would need to get a new job.

How do I handle this situation?