I'm 21, she's 19(yeah, I know). Only to provide context, she's got many green flags: stay at home type, not an atention whore, submissive, respectful, strong relationship with father, high degrees etc

What bothers me a little bit is her past: •unprotected sex •she started having sex at 15 yo(eastern european) •her first one(1 year long) ended up cheating on her •the second one(2 years) was a drug abuser, her parents were being against him. She was visiting her grandparents from the country side only to meet with him without anyone knowing or seeing them. She told me that once he quit smoking cause she had a good influence on him bla bla then he started again.

The thought that she's been with this type of guys and the emotional impact(drama and stuff) they've had on her, the nice things that she maybe did for them without them appreciating that much, the hiding from the others, the lies she has told to her parents(ironically, she respects her father a lot)..this is what makes me go cold.

Judging by her past, she doesn't seem LTR material but judging by her actions, she seems to me. I'm confused.

Despite of the fact that those guys don't have my SMV and that she respects me and does things for me, what bothers me is that it looks like they've treated her bad and I'm the guy after who doesn't really create drama.

I sound beta AF, I'm aware. I just want constructive opinions guys.