hey there asktrp. Been lurking this sub occasionally for about 6 or 8 months now. Am 17, college freshman, dating this gal I met at HS for 2.5 years. Cute, sweet, feminine, sexually available, conservative attitude on relationships, looks up to me. Used to be more hostile + nagging until I acted more RP and took charge (she reacted beautifully). Second gf I ever dated, the first only lasted 2 months and was a disaster. Im not super alpha, had a super blue pill beta background and don't have masculine RP role models.

I know I'm not even adult yet, but I kinda wanna stay in a ltr for a long time. Don't think I'm pedestalizing her, I try not to supplicate or act needy, but I keep thinking I'll never meet another woman like her (not getting abundance mentality). My main focus right now is schoolwork, lifting, water polo, and networking with people. The gf is more of a side project. Awesome gf though. I'm young. Should I be in a ltr with this girl or spinning plates + partying? What should I be doing with my life? All advice appreciated.