Two similar situations recently:

  • Had date with a girl from my class who was giving me major IOIs. On the date she was super into me and filing almost every silence herself. I end up bringing her back to my place and we go 3/4ths of the way to the bang (I finish in her mouth). She was wet as a faucet, but wasn't going to have sex she meant it and not as LMR. Afterwards she's jokingly asking me if I'm going to move to her country and stuff, and kisses me goodbye when I drop her off. 3 days later I hit her up (on Monday), ask her how the rest of her weekend went, and then give her a day for a 2nd date and she says "I'm really busy this week but probably some other time?". Haven't responded. rationalmale says the medium is the message that her actions tell you all you need to know, not her words, so she obviously somehow lost interest in me in those 3 days?
  • Had a date with a 19y girl I met from online. She was a nerd in high school and claims to be a virgin. One of the first things she says to me is that she doesn't do the hookup thing. Thought that was good because it means she saw me and started thinking about sex. She can't drink so we just walk around all night basically and I take her to a couple of secluded spots. She asks me what I'm looking for multiple times. Doesn't resist any of my kino at all but denies my first kiss attempt. Keeps responding positively to my kino (rubbing her thighs and ass and her torso) with zero resistance but keeps denying the kiss. This repeats a few cycles and we eventually makeout a bit before her bus comes. I hit her up the next day (I figured maybe 3 days was too long with the first girl, and she felt like I was just using her and pulled back emotionally) with some plans (gave her a day, not a time) and she says "actually I'm doing X that day" even though X is an afternoon event... so it's not really even a valid excuse. Haven't responded.

There was also another girl (the most recent girl before these two) that I did actually fuck and she simply ghosted me entirely.... but she was high when it happened so thats not unusual. This is more of a text game question in regards to the above two situations, but I figured I'd mention this as background information as I don't know what's going on or why I can't get 2nd dates with any of these girls? I don't smell as far as I know and these girls are obviously physically attracted to me. If there was something about me they realized in person after meeting, then they wouldn't be getting sexual with me right?

Anyway, am I correct to assume these girls aren't interested anymore? Should I ever text back? What should I text if I do? "Forget about it and game over girls" is reasonable advice that you can almost give anyone, but it doesn't really help me here because I have a leaky bucket problem that is reoccuring. If the leak isn't addressed then the exact issue is going to keep happening where I can't convert successful date 1s to date 2s.