so upgrades from plate to friends with benefits to girlfriend should be rewarded with EFFORT

so this girl that I go out with will pay for all the meals and if I say something like that looks nice, she’ll say “lets get it for you” and I know she actually will (got a 50+ peice of clothing once) but there is 0 effort on her part. (does working for me count?)

Would this be seen as effort put in as she is investing so much money on me?