Me and my wife have been together for 7 years now and we have been married for 2 years, we have two little girls 2 and 3 years old and the last 6 months she’s been feeling depressed and anxiety. And I have been doing everything I can do to try and get her out of the depressed state. I’ve bought her flowers once a week I take her without the kids on weekends away from everything, I come home and clean all the house and do the laundry when she doesn’t have the effort to do it. I try and spend every second with her that I’m not working. And she only works 3 days a week after I’m done work for a couple hours because we can’t afford day care. But after work she goes to the gym, than she will come home. And she doesn’t wanna have any physical contact with me unless I ask her. She goes out of her way to go sit at the other end of the couch. She doesn’t wanna cuddle or hug or kiss unless I ask 5 times. And 2 days ago she asked me if she could go stay at a hotel so she could get some time away without me, I told her if she thinks it will make things better than she could. Go on to later in the night (8pm) I see on one of our friends social media that shes in her ex boyfriend’s truck with 2 of her girlfriends. I freak out and go find her and told her she’s going home to get in the truck. And she wouldn’t come with me and she kept saying I completely ruined our relationship now that she wanted a divorce. So i let her go to her hotel, she ran and wouldn’t let me follow her. So yesterday morning I left the house and I locked all the doors she doesn’t have the keys, and she wanted to come home but I told her she would have to come to my work and get the keys from me if she wants in the house, and it turned around on me that I’m the bad guy. And that I don’t trust her. She says she just wants to “be herself” and not have to take care of everyone else any more! But I told her she isn’t in the right mind state. She knows she needs mental help but she won’t go see someone who is trained to help depressed people. And she just wants to leave and take our daughters with her. But both her parents and my parents have told her if she is leaving this house the girls aren’t going with her. She has no where to go do the girls need to be at home where they can sleep in there beds. What am I doing?! I’m so lost with what’s happened to my life. She’s my best friend when she’s not depressed and I love her to pieces. Has anyone been thru anything like this