Before I get into the story, I just want to make it clear that I'm not necessarily planning on acting on anything, just curious as to what this situation truly is. As it stands, there is a female friend of mine who has lately been "joking around" about having a side piece (she's married). She's one of those girls that got married really young to a military husband, as it stands she's only 21. As stated before, she's lately been joking around about having a side piece and I'm starting to think it's not a joke. She's easily a HB 7-7.5 and believe me "if I could I would" lol. It's hard for me to actually tell if it's just a joke or if she's propositioning me. Just for clarification, her husband isn't deployed or anything. They live together and I think he finished his term of service a year or two ago. Based on the experiences of the men in this group, how can I tell if she's really just joking or if she's truly looking to turn me into a side piece? Like I said before, I don't have intentions to actually do anything, that is unless she just so happens to end up at my place. At that point, whatever happens...happens. Anyway, am I overthinking this or is this a case of her joking being a form of ASD?