About 6 months ago I came out of a LTR and have had more sexual interactions than probably my entire single life before the relationship, yet I'm still missing something.

I have delusional confidence, and game girls strictly in bars on cold approach. I think my biggest weakness is limited social circle, but in these past 6 months alone I have had sex with 4 new girls, blowjobs from 2 and made out with about 75 girls. I feel that the numbers are necessary to explain my frustration.

I have no idea how to hold the girls interest or get them to text back. It almost seems like they should be chasing me, but if I don't text after the makeouts they don't and if I do text the conversation rarely leads to a date.

Two of the girls I had sex with told me during sex that I was incredible, had multiple orgasms and then after fucking 2-3 times didn't want to hang out anymore.

So what, even if I'm displaying alpha traits, is it "just my turn?". I genuinely feel that my cold approach success is fleeting and each week I'm just chasing new makeouts. I can only surmise that the lack of social circle and being labeled a "random" is why the girls don't stick around for a FWB or something more. I don't get it, I think my conversion rate should be higher with more permanence.

How do I establish a harem, or even get a girl who is attracted to me to text back?