I'm unable to approach girls in bars or nightclubs.

Every weekend I go out and i see other guys dancing and talking to girls while I'm just standing around unable to start any sort of interaction with any girls.

What Is Your Goal?

My goal is to be able to approach any girl I want to meet in a nightclub.

How Long Have You Had This Goal?

I started going to nightclubs when i turned 21 back in october 2013.

I have been actively trying to achieve this goal since then.

What Have You Already Tried To Achieve This Goal?

- I have tried losing my ego/power of now/echart tolle stuff

- I tried not watching porn or masturbating aka nofap

- I tried hypnosis with 3 different people

- I tried a therapy called TRE where you shake your body and its supposed to remove anxiety

- I traveled to another country to try this weird therapy where they hooked me up to a lie detector test and asked me a bunch of questions about my past.

- I tried daily meditation

- I tried daily cold showers

- I tried increasing my already above average testosterone levels to extreme levels

- I tried beta blockers and propapronolol

- I tried getting completely drunk

- I tried phenibut

- I tried dopamine brain food

- I have paid for coaching from douzens of people over the years who claimed they could help me

- I tried these programs where you incrementally increase the difficulty so for example you start by asking a man for the time, then asking a woman for the time, then asking a woman you find attractive for the time, then asking a girl for directions, then asking for directions and telling the girl she has a nice outfit,etc...all the way until approaching

Are You Able To Approach Girls During The Day?

i can talk to girls at work or girls i encounter during my day to day life.

but am i able to walk up to a random girl during the day and hit on her?

no i cannot do that.

Are You Physically Attractive?

yes im tall and above average looking.

If could just talk to the girls in nightclubs who show clear/blatant interest in me then i would not be posting this.

Are You A Virgin?

No i have slept with a few girls who approached me in nightclubs and have slept with a few other girls i met during the day.

Why Nightclubs Specifically?

I 'm now in my late 20s and i will never get these party years back.

I have a limited amount of time left to really experience the nightlife and have fun crazy adventures that are only possible in this environment,

I can meet girls during the day or online even when im 50 years old but the nightlife is a period of time that is limited and i want to experience this fully while im still young enough.

Why $10, 000, Are You Rich Or Something?

I'm not rich at all.

$10 000 is basically all the money i have saved up right now.

Basically, I'm willing to spend my life savings to achieve this goal.