We were together for a few months last year and she had slept with 4 people. Two boyfriends, one ONS and one fling who she was very into but it fizzled out because he didn’t want to commit. She’s a very attractive girl and very pretty and kind. We broke up because I treated her very poorly and ended up being abusive to her. I begged her back but eventually gave up after a few months and she came back straight away when I began to become truly over her. I took her back as I am in love with her and she’s the best looking girl I’ve been with and I’ve been with ~20 girls. We’re both 21.

It’s pretty much perfect but I can’t get over her n-count. She was severely depressed after we broke up and she slept with 3 other guys in the 5 month period we we’re broken up. Each of them weren’t a serious and she ghosted them because it wasn’t the same as with me. I don’t know if I believe that but she is incredibly into me. She’s incredibly in love and is constantly talking about marrying me and having my children. She even says if we broke up she’d have my children. I slept with girls too during the break, more than her. She accepts that fact and has no issue with it except jealousy but she’s over it.

We’ve been dating now for a few months and i cant get over her n-count. She is at 8 including me. Before you say triple it, she’s being honest. I just can tell. I feel unsure about her and I look at her differently than I did when I was first in love with her in the first relationship. Some part says get over it, we were broken up and it’s not insanely high as two of the other seven were boyfriends. Other part says run while I can. Another’s part says just enjoy her but I made the mistake in asking her out at the start because I was still obsessed with her and don’t want to cheat on people. Advice needed.