Hey guys,

I need some help avoiding attachment. Some time ago, there was a post on TRP about not getting emotionally invested.

The tips it gave were to make your life interesting and always keep those your hobby's/interests in mind. I did that and my life is pretty busy now. This has helped in regards to not getting attached to friends and such. I no longer feel the need to keep up with friends just to stay relevant, etc. Basically, I no longer identify with my friends.

The case is different with attractive girls. I seem to get very easily attached. I feel the need to reply to their messages, care about their opinion, and basically feel like I need to maintain my connection to them. No matter how hard I try they keep popping up in my mind

I respond usually by withdrawing completely. Ie. Leaving the room, deleting Snapchat, etc. But that's stupid because then I'm letting them control my life.

How do I get out of this? How do I stop giving a fuck about attractive girls?

Thanks in advance!