What’s up so this might seem strange but I’m not gay but struggling to outright chase women. I know I’m not gay because I only get off to girls in porn and when I jack off but really not into dudes, which porn may be my problem, but I don’t seem to have the fiery drive that everyone expects. I had a fairly attractive girlfriend for a year with great sex and a very close emotional bond but I left her for grad school across the country to chase my career dreams(NC to CO which is fucking awesome). In this new town when I go out with my new friends they kinda give me shit for not really going for any girls and keep joking that I may be gay but can’t explain this lack of drive I’m felling. Thanks for any input I’m really struggling to get my fire back and the social consequences are starting to add up.