Need help with sexual stamina

94redstealth · 2015-03-22T00:33:51+00:00

Read 'Sex God Method' now.

Its all in your head man, trust me, I have the same problem. That book made a huge difference for me.

feminazis_stalk_me · 2015-03-22T08:18:27+00:00

Kegels.

The same muscles that let you hold back your pee flow are the SAME muscles that can hold back your wad, if you exercise and train them. There are a lot of exercises online that you can find. I myself am able to completely cut off my urine flow at any time, and then release it again - now THAT'S dick control, and it has worked in my favor for years.

Practice squeezing and holding those muscles. You'll feel it in your prostate, deep in the core of your pelvis. Squeeze and hold. Squeeze and hold. Like any muscle, it has to be built up and exercised. When you're having sex and feel like you're about to cum, SLOW DOWN your strokes and clench those muscles until the sensation goes away, then you can relax and continue pounding that tuna. Repeat and profit. Try it out, and soon you'll become a cocksmith of epic proportions, just like me!

MyReddit4 · 2015-03-21T23:17:00+00:00

I wouldn't worry so much about duration. I'm willing to bet most girls have only ever had really shitty sex, so the bar is pretty low in most cases.

Honestly, your best bet is to just do what you want to do and have fun. Let her get off from pleasing you. The second you start worrying, it's already over.

On a side note: I'm super standard in bed (in terms of positions/variety) but many girls have called me a "Sex God." The only thing I assume I do differently than most guys is dirty talk. If you get in her head and control her psychologically, it wont matter how long you last or what you do - she'll get off.

If you're about to burn out - slow way the hell down and look in her eyes. Tell her to take a deep breathe and focus on feeling you inside her. Say this with a bit of a sinister edge. Hold her firm and pull her hair back. Tell her to cum. The point is to create some sort of animalistic, dangerously intimate vibe. Trust me, she'll remember that more than you lasting another 10 minutes.

Done.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-03-22T02:14:36+00:00

YMMV, masturbate a few hours before. You don't need to monk, you already have the prize.

Also, do things to prelong your erection without actual stimulation, leading up PIV.

And lastly... a woman absolutely LOVES when you just STOP bangin her and do something spontaneous, flip her on her stomach and start touching her all over her back or go down on her... anything to break the stimulation chain and reset a bit.

oldredder · 2015-03-22T06:55:49+00:00

I find masturbation helps but only with a very specific practice / goal: ensure you don't let yourself come early, only after keeping hard and into it for the time you want to really, really last.

But sex is also practice so you can get the girl to do any number of things to keep you going but not spill your load right away. What's doing it? Her tightness? How hot her hole is? How she gyrates? OK, great, so she can finish you that way but how about keeping you hard, going, but not finishing with a nice blowjob? Handjob? Titty fucking?

Are her breasts big enough to do that? Some aren't, I get that, this is just a consideration. But a good blowjob can vary so much, a girl could lick and tease so you don't fire off right away, or she can swallow it all and suck with all her might so you get hard to start, whatever.

Obviously if a girl lacks the skill this makes things difficult but it sounds like your girl isn't lacking. So just pursue this with her. Remember, she's part of this too so telling her in a way that's just the right level of hot/leading to do this for you, make you last, make everything last, this can work, right?

I think it can but life offers no guarantees.

Wozzly · 2015-03-22T07:01:11+00:00

Take Viagra.

Title	Need help with sexual stamina
Author	sabinmightyfist
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	March 21, 2015 10:29 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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