Need help with social game

Mazz0 · 2015-02-05T04:07:22+00:00

This is going to sound stupid, but just go out. Not necessarily to clubs and bars or whatever. Try a meet-up website, look for local sports clubs, join a club at school, enroll in a dance/cooking/mixology class. Do something you like and then meet other people who do the same thing. People want to like you.

Fyi I find classes the easiest places to make friends (both school classes and classes that you sign up for; like dancing).

Dayman526 · 2015-02-05T06:01:40+00:00

Well for starters, once you have that job you'll be in a much more comfortable place. $30/hr is substantial and should be enough to set you up in your own apartment. This alone will boost your confidence immensely. It's a lot easier to say to a girl (wherever you are, whatever you're doing) "Wanna come back to my place?" instead of "Wanna come back to my folks'? We just have to be quiet". (I speak from experience)

After that, look into some local classes. You'll find something out there that sounds moderately interesting. Spend some time at the library of your school, there's always ladies at the library.

Also, you can network at work. You'll find at least one or two dudes with similar interests, and they in turn can introduce you to their friends.

It's an imperfect science, for sure, and one I'm still learning myself.

Title	Need help with social game
Author	sabinmightyfist
Upvotes	7
Comments	2
Date	February 5, 2015 2:23 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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