Ok so I got into a fling with a woman some years older than me. She s 42 i'm 25. We met online and some months later she flew over 10 hours to see me. She told me this while we were hanging out together and fucking for a few days. Shes pretty well off financially and successful in her career, where as I am just starting out in my career. I'd rate myself as about a 7 or an 8 on really good day(lol). Workout a lot, low bodyfat, decent facially. She looks good for her age with a nice tight body(asian) but facially probably a 6 imo. she is divorced once but no kids. Anyway, now shes gone she did hint at doing it again, but I'm trying to figure out what a woman in her situation is looking for with a younger guy like myself. Is it likely to be purely sexual, no strings kinda fun, or am I likely to have to start dealing with her wanting commitment and more If i continued?

At one point while we were hanging out, she mocked a guy she was texting with me and showed me all the messages. She had been texting him to find things out from him about where she was going to visit, with vague promises of a date, which she cancelled on a few times. She openly mocked him saying she was on a date with another guy (me) and then he said he'd buy me a drink if she took me with her lol, then he started blowing up her phone.

My plan is to try leverage her resources if I can, planning a trip soon and If i can get her in on it that would be a good excuse to get her paying for shit. In terms of SMV and dating market, why does an older woman go out of her way to see a younger guy? Can they really find no other men?