Hi all,

I've been lurking on trp a while, and I'm not sure where else to post this - hopefully you guys can read and help me out, plus I need to vent a bit. Sorry for the wall of text.

A few months back I met a girl in the library at my uni, and we seemed to hit it off well - the following week we meet at a party and made out, and I walked her home, although I chickened out of any further interaction using my early class as an excuse.

For the next few weeks we see each other and she spends a few nights in my room - while things did get pretty intimate I always got hit by an attack of the nerves as it started getting heavy, as in we never had sex despite her practically moving in. By the time I was comfortable enough I ran into a few misfortunes explained later.

Regardless, she proposed that we enter a proper relationship a few days later, and I agreed. However, since this point I began to see her less and less as exams were approaching fast, and I had to deal with a family bereavement, all the while I had had the flu. This led to a stressful week or so.

During this time I learned she had been lying to me, telling me she was working or any other excuse while she was actually going out - I called her out and she came rushing over to apologise, and I thought all was well.

A few days later she texts me telling me she cheated on me, how she's a horrible person and I deserve better. This is hours before my final exam. I pack up her things from my room and return it to her, requesting she stay out of my life. She did ask me how I feel, and said she didn't want to talk to me when she realised I was mad.

She since has been following me around on nights out, asking my friends for me, and apparently stalking me when I was making out with another girl at a party. At one point i physically had to push past her. I have no idea what she wants, it hurts having to see her, I don't understand what she is doing. It's at this point I find she's apparently a bit of a slut and a mess of a person - against my better judgement I ignored several red flags.

Can anyone share some advice on how to get over this, since I think I went compete beta on this one.

Thanks