I’m having trouble taking the next step. Some context about me; I’m 6,2, and always been told i am good looking. I’m in college and have a good gpa/career prospects within my field i have identified. I have also been lifting for over year and have a good build, and am in a fraternity with good social status The only problem is I am having trouble turning what i have learned into practice.

I have trouble approaching girls, i have trouble with my self confidence, and when i approach girls i get the feeling that they would rather be doing something else. I go through phases of not talking to any girls and focusing on my studies, then i try way too hard to find.

So basically i am looking for advice on how to get rid of my negative mental attitude and to transition to someone who takes action instead of just mental masturbation.