I am new to trp, I know what its about. I have always been the quiet kid, I didn't have much relationships with my colleagues, but I was doing good in my studies until i realized how the social life works, I was always told to be a good person, to be nice to Women(because they like "nice guys"), anyway when i actually was nice i was probably not respected by anyone. I was friendzoned and broken because of girls my age, i'm a self critical person so i started to see what i was doing, and did things differently, I was less nice to people, cared less, and it actually worked, I earned more respect but now people just tell me i'm mean and that my views are not relevant although its obvious that its real, i used to be obsessed with the idea of marriage but now, not so much, now my parents call me stupid, friends call me lonely but for some reason i find them respect me and ask for my opinions and I find women talk to me and be more interested in me but everyone calls me a woman hater(and i am actually not i just know how they work), so i am really pissed, why do people shame me but their actions show something else, I really don't care about peoples' opinions but now i'm starting to doubt myself, I need some clarification please.