Hey trp folks. I feel like I’m having a midlife crisis at 27. Growing up I never was “that guy.” The athletic successful guy that could get any girl he wanted. I was much more the nice guy who everyone liked, but who was single all through high school and college.

Now I’m 27, single, dead end-job, overweight, a list of bad habits, and a self-confidence rating smaller than my dick (so really small). I haven’t even approached a girl in so long because I don’t even want to be around me.

I guess my hope is for advice to change this mindset.