Gonna need a few of you TRP guys to clarify a few things for me. Don't tell me to read the sidebar as I have many times and have been involved in TRP community for 2 1/2 years.

Ok a bit of background on me. Im 19 go to uni in the UK and have only had sex twice, with different girls but I was drunk both times and wouldn't rate those girls very highly. However there is a girl I really like and have heard that she likes me and finds me attractive, the only problem is she's 'seeing' someone right now. How would you lads go about this, I know I should just drop it and focus on other things but I've caught feelings. Thats my first question.

Secondly I have been thinking that I found out about TRP when I was too young. I was 16 at the time and had never gone anywhere with a girl past kissing. When I found the TRP I started becoming emotionless in a way, even today I think that has hindered any relationships I've had with girls because I don't really feel that much. I would like some clarification on how to not go with your feelings 100% of the time but also have some rewarding relationships and if AWALT then how am I supposed to have feelings for someone and even dare I say it love them?

E:Dont normally ask for help but I've been down recently and are searching for answers.