So a brief bit of history. This girl I've known for years and years recently reconnected earlier this year. I hadn't seen her for years and out of the blue she reconnected and the tension was high. Last month while I was traveling through her state we hooked up. Banter has been good and previous texts have kept the sexual tension high throughout the past 5 or 6 weeks.

Earlier today I sent her a text:

  • Me: Happy thanksgiving __
  • Her: thx you too
  • Me: BTw, I'll be driving to _____ this weekend. What are you up to tomorrow or Saturday?
  • .... Long delay between text ....
  • Her: Idk __ ill have to think about it, im not down for booty calls
  • .... medium delay between text ....
  • Her: I just get attached n fucking all casual n then u leaving hurts... plus I don't want u to think im an easy girl who does that
  • .... medium delay between text ....
  • Her: What do u think??

Basically, a pile of sudden unexpected ASD out of the blue. I'm thinking I can use the disclosure of "casual and then you leaving hurts" to completely turn it around though.

So, any specific red pill advice on how to respond. I don't mind letting her sit a while longer because it is clear my silence is getting a response, but I have to admit my text game is pure weak sauce. Without being able to read non-verbals and body language I feel like I'm flying blind.

UPDATE: Based on solid advice my response was

  • Me: "I think I should pick you up tomorrow so we can hang out. How about 2ish?"
  • Her: "Kk Ill b here ^.^" (instant response)
  • Me: "Perfect"
  • Her: "Kk xD" (instant response)