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Needy and clingy

AwesomeTheKid · 2018-11-03T05:14:01+00:00

How can I avoid this behaviour mostly in romantic relationships but in normal day-to-day ones as well. I'm looking for mindset changes or just typical...

AwesomeTheKid

November 3, 2018

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Title	Needy and clingy
Author	AwesomeTheKid
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	November 3, 2018 5:14 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9trmfr/needy_and_clingy/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/needy-and-clingy.136465 https://theredarchive.com/post/136465

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[–]-saltymangos-0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]AwesomeTheKid[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]AwesomeTheKid[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]-saltymangos-1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You have to change their mood. Look into yourself to find who you really are and once you find out, you won’t care what people think of you.

I’m hanging out with a girl I’m kinda vetting for a LTR on a park bench. We are asking each other questions, getting to know more about each other. I can sense that the energy and mood is dipping down so I quickly get up from the bench and say “let’s go!” and put my arm around her and we go on a walk around. As we are walking wraps both arms around me and says, “wow you really just changed my mood completely. that’s so hot, other guys would usually just be like ‘what’s the problem?’ but you did something.”

Really made me realize that you don’t wanna ask her “what’s wrong” or SAY anything to better the situation. Just DO something to change her MOOD and she will change.

[–]AwesomeTheKid[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheStumblingWolf0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link