Leaning towards NoContact on this one but I met a girl (HB8) with EXTREMELY high interest a month back. Sat down at a coffee shop, had a VERY organic conversation with her within minutes (we talked about the long term effects of porn on the mind) and she gave me her number.

Called a few days later, set up a date, walked around the city, couldn’t keep our hands off each other, and ended up making out by the end of it.

Her words: “At first I just wanted to have sex with you but now I want to be friends too.”

Couldn’t close the deal because I had another date. Broke frame and asked her what she was doing the next day (Sunday) but she said she was busy. I said, cool, let’s hang next Saturday. She agreed.

The next week I call and she’s busy working that weekend (Labor Day weekend).

I give it another week or two.

Text this time with playful teasing (“hey big butt”) and after some back and forth ask if she’s free.

Her response: “I don’t think I’ll have the time or energy for hangs this weekend. A lot is happening in my world”

Mine: “No worries, hit me up when your schedule frees up, I’d love to see you again.”

That was two weeks ago.

Never fucked but clearly I want to. I haven’t met a girl that bad and that goddamn feminine in a LONG while.

I’d peg her low interest but I’m debating whether to drop her and move on or call again. Leaning towards the drop though.