I understand the hypergamy nature and that there are always AMOGs out there, but it constantly feels like sometimes I am "not good enough". It's stressful because I don't want that stress to bleed into the connection, her feeling that anxiety and thinking maybe I am more beta because I'm stressing about keeping her attention, which means I'm not worthy of her attention. I am in good shape and confident, but always stressing another more confident, social, cultural person will come along and grab her attention. I understand that's how it works and the cock carousel, I'm just curious how I can keep the anxiety low during the gaming.