Hi gentlemen.

I mostly lurk on my main, and use this account any time I need to post a question I don't want tied to that account.

Question for you guys - especially the main posters, i.e., /u/gaylubeoil (who I find hilarious and evoking of poignant feelings): Where or when can a guy be weak? I know we talk about "frame" all the time, but fuck man, sometimes life gets at you. I've been burned in enough relationships that the LAST thing I want to do is go spill feelings to some chick. That has never helped me - in fact hurt me (lesson learned). What is TRP stance on brohugs?

For context, I went to some Catholic men's groups once upon a time and it was really cool. I grew up in nutter-butter churches, and it turned me off to Christianity, but those guys were cool, and real people. They struggled, and weren't afraid to share it in an all-dude environment. It spoke to me. Is there an equivalent in our community? Where can guys vent? We're not "all alpha, all the time". I firmly believe in man's fallibility, and I invite the mods of /r/theredpill or /r/asktrp to write on this subject. I'm new and....well, half impressionable and half critical.

Looking forward to responses. If this sparks a real discussion, I'll cross-post to TRP with a mod invite.