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Oneitis dilemma

wtfAWALTmang
June 27, 2015
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Title Oneitis dilemma
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wtfAWALTmang
Upvotes 0
Comments 6
Date June 27, 2015 5:09 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3bbi4k/oneitis_dilemma/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/oneitis-dilemma.150531
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[–]abdada4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your dad's advice is 100% accurate.

This is not the time for you to LTR the girl you lost your cherry to. Move on. GFTOW.

GFTOW.

This is a Red Pill subreddit, NOT a dating subreddit.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

ive pretty much felt like im way more invested then she is.

She was only interested in a quick fuck, maybe two, and probably the novelty of taking a guy's virginity. This was really the only thing she was interested in offering, or probably had time for.

The correct way to handle this would have been to treat her exactly like a fuck toy, and only contact her for sex. If she turned you down, to not give a fuck, approach other women, and not contact her for a few weeks at least. When you started trying to get more than she was offering, she saw you as being desperate, and there aren't a lot of things women are more repulsed by.

If she contacts me today that is.

She won't.

Quit beating that dead horse. Learn from your mistakes and move the fuck on. Approach more women.

[–]wtfAWALTmang[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

We have had sex a lot more than 2 times and I never told her I was a virgin. And youre right I dont think she was going to contact me today I was a little bitch and texted her earlier to see if we were on but shes giving signs shes going to flake. We were suppost to hang out tomorrow too but I think shes keeping me on standby in case her and this other dude dont hit it off. I do need to meet more girls but in my current situation I dont have the means and probably wont for a few months.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I do need to meet more girls but in my current situation I dont have the means

Why? Are you profoundly deaf and can only use sign language? Do you live in a town, or country that's entirely populated by men? Are you a catholic priest? (that doesn't stop a lot of them, you know....)

Quit whining.

Quit creating artificial obstacles and limitations for yourself, before you've even left your bloody house.

See a woman you like somewhere, anywhere? Approach her, tease her about something, flirt, ask for her number, date, have sex.....wash, rinse, and repeat.

If she says she's married or has a boyfriend, DGAF, walk away, and approach someone else.

Approach more women.

[–]wtfAWALTmang[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Na actually I meant im not in school and my job is an overnight thing with a bunch of low lives and I basicly only have 2 friends and both of them are up their gfs asses and when they arent only want to smoke weed and play xbox. I actually left my other job where I met this chick because I was fearing a break up and it being awkward. So I really have no idea how to meet people or network.

[–]imgonnabethegreatest0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe outside, idk

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