Hello lads, haven’t posted here in awhile.

So I recently got absolutely cucked by a long term prospect whom I had been gaming on for like a year, and things were finally escalating.

It felt like it was going too slow after 7 months; so I stopped talking to her because I lost interest, and then she was all over me wanting to keep things going because “she really liked me” and “could see us together for a long time”.

I got sucked back into it, and we ended up going on one last date (unknown to me at the time it would be our last date). The date went well (or so I thought), but afterwards she was distant for a few days, then laid it on me via text the whole “it’s not you it’s me” speech and how “she wasn’t attracted to the idea of a relationship”.

I had the self-respect to tell her I’m not down with being in the friend zone after we had feelings for each-other; so this is goodbye, and we parted ways after that.

I know I fell for one-itis, but how the fuck do I get over this. This went down like an entire month ago and it’s still on my mind. I feel like she vindictively just wanted to keep the thing going so she could end it on her terms instead of on mine as originally planned. Maybe I am reading too much into this, but I just want to get over it and move on. Any thoughts or assistance would be helpful bros.