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[–]Clint_Redwood3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Your SMV isn't high enough for what you want. You seem to be about where i was after getting out of a 4 year LTR and finding TRP. It gets way easier when you are jacked, keep lifting.
Online can be effective. I typically cast a wide net by saying random bullshit that's slightly edgy to see how the girls respond. Basically any girl that is DTF for you will respond no matter what you say. You want to aim for those and filter out all the validation queens quickly.
Then meet with these girls as fast as possible. I have great success with turning a text conversation sexual but it is a lot of time drained.
Day/night game is by far way more rewarding and you gain a lot more social experience doing it vs online. Online is great if you are rusty on game but decent looking. I practiced A&A for a month on tinder and it helped tremendously when starting night game.
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[–]Clint_Redwood1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My game is basically just a combination of wit and sexual innuendo with compliments tied in.
Stop complimenting. I never compliment unless they send nudes. And if they do, it's usually some witty doublehanded compliment. Usually I'll tell them they need to clean their room or something, even if it's spotless. Pretty much comment on anything but their beauty.
You want to get them to start qualifying themselves to you.
double entendres are great for shifting the conversation sexual also.
Try studying different text game methods and substitute out a new method every week. This is how you will find an awesome formula that works really well for you.
Have to disagree here. Even now, I'm getting better return on my time than I do from meeting in person. Combine that with the terribleness of night clubs compared to the comfort of my desk and it's a no brainer for me.
That's because you probably suck at it like everyone starting out. 9 months ago I couldn't pull a chick from a bar if my life depended on it. Today, I pull a girl in 20 minutes or less.
Don't take that easy road man, trust me. When you go out you aren't just working towards getting laid. You are actively becoming better at talking to anyone. The social skills you develop can be used to further friendships, career goals, etc. Social game is far more beneficial than text game when it comes to looking at the overall big picture that is your life.
All you are gaining by online game is a quick lay and carpal tunnel. I'm not saying don't do it, but you need to practice real social skills.
[–]Clint_Redwood0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Casually fucking sluts is my only goal here.
Lifting and a shirtless pic will be your best improvement then.
[–]Mathematic210 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do you personally turn a conversation sexual via text? I've looked at material online and it isn't doing it for me
[–]Clint_Redwood1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's on the spot stuff really. I can't explain without context and it's been a while since I did the whole text escalation with sex.
Basically I go for double entendres whenever i see a opportunity to. When you set the frame of A&A to absurdity with girls. It's a lot easier to transition to sexual talk instead of guys that just text bullshit idle talk.
When i text girls, it's nuclear A&A. I've talk to girls about what it'd be like to be homeless strippers and getting our kids to deal on the corners for us since the cops can't arrest them while supporting us in our alcoholism. It that gives you an idea of how ridiculous you can go with A&A.
When you take to girls in that frame, it's really easy to get them to open up to you.
Check out my top comment on this thread to get an idea.
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3zku4c/chat_with_a_flaky_9_help_me_analyze_it/
The wet at all times comment isn't technically double entendre but it is double talk. That conversation would probably go something like;
me - "Noted, I prefer my women wet at all times"
her - "lol"
me - "Whats so funny? don't like your women wet?"
subtext - I'm implying she's bi, now she has to qualify. She can go either way with her answer. If she says no, not into girls reply with disagree and amplify. If she agrees then you just found out she's bi and you can prep her for pick up a chick with you.
her - "Not into chicks"
Me - "Damn, was hoping i could bring you around my other girlfriends for a sleepover"
Keep away from direct talk starting out. But the farther you go with sexual talk, the more direct and dominant you want to get. About 3-7 texts of start sexual talk and I'll just start straight up asking girls what their into. Afte rthat text, I'd probably get her to qualify herself with something else, like, "So what are you into then? You're not a prude are you?"
Or she'll answer;
her - "I only take girls soaking"
me - "Good, we can pick up a chick at the bar. You the dom or sub with girls?"
More qualification for her. I show this isn't my first rodeo and it's not a big deal for a threesome. I also transitioned into an opening to explore if she's into bdsm.
Some of my go to lines to escalate further into sexual talk is;
"You into being dominated?"
"Are you the adventurous type?"
something subtle but sexual. Don't start with something as brash as, "Can i stick my dick in yo ass?". From there she will answer some half baked reply since she's probably still afraid of being judged. At which point I will force her to be more specific
me - "You into being dominated?"
her - "I don't not like it"
me - "We talking blindfolds and fuzzy cuffs or fifty shades of grey and forced pleasure?"
more qualification
Oh and another tip. When talking about anal, call it buttstuff. Idk why but girls are a lot more receptive to it when phrased that way. Kinda has a funny undertone.
[–]Fumblz0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Key is filtering validations queens. You don't want to be stuck with some broad that's just looking for a like on Instagram.
[–]Dr_D1amond0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
keep contact short
get a date
dont waste your time killing your chances by messaging them constantly. meet in person.
use tinder whilst your taking a shit and save your free time for more important activities
I've tried going silent on girls for days and it always results in them flaking
because the majority are using it for validation and have little intention of meeting up. the moment you stop, there are a million other guys waiting to give her what she wants in the hope she will magically give up her puss.
sure, use tinder/whatever to add in a few shags here and there, but it should not be your primary source of women. Meet people in the real world and you'll do a lot better.
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