I'm hoping you can help me. The things I'm doing aren't working. And I have to change something.

My job became very stressful. To cope with the aspects I couldn't change, while I was seeking other employment, I started running. And running. And running. I've always had a low BMI. But now I was approaching Maryna Linchuk's figure. I got another job. It paid better, and was more suited to my personality type. My husband was very happy with the capital increase, but started making comments that I made him feel fat, and that he needs to lose weight. I told him I found him very attractive, and that was honest.

Fast forward to today. I'm still running, I have a washboard stomach. He complains about his gut, constantly. I offer to work out with him, and continue to tell him that I find him attractive. I am rebuffed. Next time he complains, I suggest he take up kick boxing, thinking maybe he would prefer to get active without me being there. No.

He's stopped having sex with me. Completely. It's been months. Let me be clear that there is no history of infidelity, in our relationship. I am always receptive to his advances. This is because I would like to have seed more often than he, although I've never thrown that in his face. And I am definitely the beta, in the relationship. So "Stop being such a frigid cold bitch" is not the solution to this scenario. He had said, in the past, that he doesn't like it when I initiate, and feels too much pressure when I dress up for him.

I'm really at a loss as to how to remedy this situation.