I dont understand yet how you have to handle a situation like this.

"Soft nexting is a relationship technique. It is not a dating / seduction / pickup technique. You cannot soft next a woman unless you’ve had sex with her at least twice and are seeing her at least semi-regularly. During the dating / seduction phase before you enter into a relationship and before you actually have sex twice, soft nexting is not an option. If you do something like that at this point she’ll just blow you off and go fuck some other guy. You’ll have to use other tools, or move on. "

You want to meet with her at one of your homes, she flakes 2 times. But she will go out on dates with you at public places. no sex yet, just kissing.

I dont want to waste anytime because its annoying and i dont want to get friendzoned. She knows my intention with her. (non exclusiveness/ she dont want a boyfriend aswell )

I'm 23 , she's 21

so i cant soft next her right? what are the other tools i can use here, next to just move on ?

or should i just move on and forget about her, but if i do this, how to proceed with her? cut full contact or do i friendzone her?