Need some advice I apologize in advance for the length TLDR at the end. So I just turned 18 a month ago, and ever seen I turned 18 shit in my home has been going to hell, I live with my parents, & my 24 year old sister. and lately everyday my parents been fighting Getting physical too, and it’s all over money. My dad is an drug dealer & is very strict about money, to the point where my mom is going into my bank account borrowing money from me ( we have a shared account since I got it opened before I was 18 ) I have no car, my mom works from home. Don’t have job currently, just applied to a bunch of jobs yesterday. Hopefully I get an interview. But I’m wondering what’s the best course of action as far family fighting goes, should I keep lending money to my mom? She typically pays it back. But now she’s talking about moving out, and even talked about calling the cops on my dad to get him locked up for selling drugs, he’s been locked up for 7 years before in the past . And then when it comes to my sister she has a full time job, but is a drug addict and has no sense of finance and how to save money, her check is literally gone the day after she gets it. And she suffers from depression, tried to kill herself multiple times , so my mom also has to deal with her being sad all the time and wanting to die, as well as fighting my dad. My mom then takes the anger build up in her on me. Yelling etc. It’s seems as if I’m the only person in my whole family with a brain and a head screwed on their shoulders. My family aren’t supportive of me getting a job, never have been which is why I never got a job before ( at 16-17Any money I have is from doing landscaping for the neighbors or family members. )They haven’t even thought me how to drive, nor are willing to buy me a car. It seems like they forget I ever exist until they need my help with computers or the grass need to be cut or trash needs to be taken out, which has worked in my favor when it comes to leaving the house to meet with girls, or going to gym whenever I want. But What’s the best course of action for me to get out of this hell hole. I don’t want to end up suicidal like my sister or a criminal like my father. It’s become super hard to keep frame in this environment.
TLDR: Drug dealer dad and mom been fighting over money getting very physical, mom told me she’s going to call the cops on him and move out, sister suicidal, mom takes anger out on me, yelling at me for no reason etc. I’m 18 . No car . No job never had one family aren’t supportive of me getting one, applied anyways. It’s becoming really hard to keep frame . Any advice?
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