Perpetually Paranoid

Yashugan00 · 2021-06-21T15:10:34+00:00

There's not much special/different about you.

We're all being betrayed by women, and should always watch out for this.

Sage's "let me in" sounds about as creepy as the movie "let the right one in". Tip: you shouldn't. Trust your gut. You were probably right anyway. (I have some college horror stories from friends)

My plan is money over bitches

good, first money, then the women will follow. (and before anyone complains. this sub is DROWNING in stories where a girl left a guy during period of un-employment. So don't even start)

Seeing people I knew getting into relationships and finding love leaves me wondering

> good, wonder. A lot of those relationships are not happy anyway. You see the good parts, not the bad.

the dark truth that we are all born alone and die alone

> we all are, that's not just you.

How do you become emotionally available?

> for that to happen you have to be vulnerable. Know yourself and your emotions. Are you that guy? Most guys are not that in-tune anyway. A source of constant confusion to women.

Here's the thing. "You can love women or you can understand them." Once the red pill shows you the world for what it really is.. you can't close your eyes anymore.

you become a man when you see the world for what it is, not what you want it to be.

seek companionship in male friends, if you want loyalty get a dog.

women can neither be loyal, nor be a good friend (to a man). there's apparent exceptions but the rule stands. On the other hand, women make excellent "wing men" if they're not interested in you themselves.

Now specific to you, since you have a mental condition.

Never reveal vulnerability to a women, she will remember it for years and use it at against you at most devastating moment. There's even comics that make fun of that. (bill burr) they kick you when you're down.

I realise I sound bitter, i'm not. this is all hard-won experience.

gleeeshy · 2021-06-21T15:52:03+00:00

Yes, you should accept the fact that you are totally alone. Even a life long friendship with some other person won't relieve you from the fact that 99% of reality occurs in your head, where nobody else will ever be.

The point of friendships and relationships isn't to find some soul mate.. the point is to trick our brains into being happy for a little because it generally makes the experience we receive from it (brain) more tolerable.

A relationship will make you feel secure and socially you will be buzzing for a while, and of course the happiness related to constant sex. Relationships will NEVER change the lonely nature of life, the only way to avoid that is to never discover it. As they say, ignorance is bliss

SalesAficionado · 2021-06-21T15:05:46+00:00

Are you taking pills to control your schizophrenia?

MattyAnon · 2021-06-21T19:13:07+00:00

How do you open up to a woman?

Why bother?

Its an alien concept for me to love romantically at this point

Love is not a real thing anyway. It's a handy myth for society: pretend that male love and female love are the same thing. The implication is that if you love someone, the right someone, they will love you back IN THE SAME WAY. This is an outright lie.

Don't believe me? How many men leave a woman and say "I just want her to be ok"? Most of them. Women say "I MUST DESTROY HIM". Where's the love now?

Love: it's a lie. There is closeness and fun and some amount of care, but love in the way it is presented is a lie.

I just assume eventual betrayal

You are picturing this too deeply.

You are assuming mutual love followed by betrayal, which yes is highly likely.

But there are other options: appreciate each other casually, then separate without betrayal.

How do you become emotionally available?

Yeah, don't be beta. "Emotionally available" means "ripe for exploitation".

Title	Perpetually Paranoid
Author	Thunderbird93
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	June 21, 2021 2:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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