Some background (18m / 2 plates)

Took this girl to Senior prom and plated her for the last couple months. We text-only logistics and fuck about 2-3 times a month. Going to the same college this year.

The Outbreak (Woman cant be rationalized is my take away)

A bunch of my high school friends and I all rented a house to party for a weekend. I invited one of my plates that's in the social circle and she brought some of her girlfriends along. We both shared a bed and she gave me a BJ on both nights and one in the morning before we packed and left. I went back to sleep after the last BJ and she ignored me the entire drive home. About 10pm that night, I got a text from her calling me a toxic friend and bad influence on her life. She tells me to not respond to her text and she never wants to associate with me ever again. I just remove her contact and move on.

Question

I was always a fat beta loser in HS and I hit started lifting in February. I was on TRP since 2018. I was always a pushover but my frame has become much stronger and my social anxiety has faded.

Is this plate just a sign that I am not giving enough comfort or being too much of an asshole?