Been seeing a girl for the past month - nothing serious. Overall, done a pretty good job maintaining frame. Had an interesting situation last night, not sure if I'm reading too much into it or not - please advise.

Last night was the first night she chose which bar we were going to since she was familiar with the neighborhood and I am not. I have been leading and making plans for all other dates other than this one.

We sit down at the crowded bar and order drinks, which she completely pays for. I don't even offer. Next, she says "lets sit at a table." Sounds pretty innocent, but at the moment, it felt like she was seeing if she could get me to oblige her as part of a power game. So she gets up and starts walking towards the a table in a less crowded spot of the bar expecting me to follow, which I do. I don't know if I am misreading and over analyzing or not.

Afterwards, went back to her place and banged all night long. Helped her get off for the first time - at least she claims no one has ever made her orgasm before because she wasn't comfortable with them and thus wouldn't completely open up during sex.

Just an aside, I've noticed that pillow talk is perhaps the most vulnerable place to be as a red-pill man. Been opening my mouth a bit too much post-sex and need to remember to STFU and keep the mystery going, with a hint of comfort here and there.