Is there anyone, ANYONE, who's maintained a plate they were dicking down for longer than 3 months WITHOUT getting to a point where they began lying to keep the buns around?

Is lying inevitable to get past this point? Is there a particular group of girls that I'm not aware of that aren't absolutely trash in quality and self esteem that you can pull this off on?

The curiosity on this one is insane. Would love some assurance that its possible with an acceptable standard of girls and how.