Probably something that comes up a bit but figured I’d ask anyway. We’ve been split a few years, tried to work things out maybe a year and a half ago ish? Didn’t work, had relationships after her, she has as well. But in honesty, she was a great fuck. Whatever I wanted for the most part, sexually we meshed together pretty well, mainly the reason we stayed together so long.

Oneitis is a long lost thing at this point. She keeps “reaching out” over a recent breakup and other things I’ve gone through and I’m almost entirely sure if I play it right I can plate her if I want to. Has anyone got any experience about this? I’m sure we all say “oh we’re over this” and yadayada but I really just miss being able to have anal and whatever else I want when I want it lol. No LTR in my thoughts at all. Just pump and dump every so often.

So yay, nay, proceed with caution? Any advice?