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[–]trpboy1230 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay, so if everything your wife wrote there is true(that is, she didn't make stuff up) - then there is some stuff we need to improve on.
First, never lose your frame - you got angry at your wife because she denied you. Instead you should have stayed calm and talked with her. You are one in charge of this relationship. Of course she does have a say in stuff. But then you like your friend and want to hangout at your place.
Since your wife doesn't want to stay when your friend comes over, tell her to go and hangout with her friends till your friend leaves.
You made a plan. So don't let her change it.
Don't ever get angry or pissed. Just stay cool and talk because you are going to bring your friend over and your wife can either be at your home or let her hang out with her friends.