I recently went on a first date with a girl i met on tinder. The date went great, we were making out and made a good connection. She was pretty close to coming home with me but because of work the next morning she decided not to. 30mins after the date she text me to tell me she was home safe and told me what a great night she had. We texted the next day and i could sense a kind of a cooling off from her just from the tone of her texts and as i kinda anticipated she didnt respond to one of my texts. This was 3 days ago now, its possible i am overthinking this. I could reopen her tomorow and she could be fine but this has happened alot to me where iv had a great first date but then the girl just flakes on me after that and i never see her again. Is it possible that if you are close to bringing a girl home but you fail to accomplish this then she loses attraction?