I'm attending a law enforcement academy in the southern states, engaged, into week 2, staying in dorms. Can't pull the goalie, rarely if ever see the wife, it's rough boys. There's a solid 8.5/10, T H I C C in my class, but I can't figure out the best strategy to approach her for ongoing friends with benefits situation.

She's mentioned she likes to drink, so I was planning on getting a group together to go out, let her crush a few and then ask how she felt about one of the girls in her dorm getting railed by a deputy in my dorm (is currently happening) and go from there, but any tips on phrasing when breaching and/or closing, how to go about it as carefully as possible as we're supposed to be in a brother/sisterhood type scenario?