In the past I was the most shy person ever, never talked with people, was an outsider and a loser. Now I approach, a lot, but I feel like I approach just to approach, I speak, she speaks, small talk, a good talk, I sometimes get the number, but nothing ever happens. I do feel that the anxiety is going away, and that I don't care anymore, everyday I become smoother. (I go to the local pool everyday and talk with moms, tourists, hot babes, old ladies, everyone)

But I still think I should have a better goal than just talking, what's the next part? close a date? go for a kiss? or just keep it going and whatever happens happens? because I don't want to pressure myself either.