...into this forum.

I read trp for the last year and adopted a lot of the habits and thinking in pursuit of a "better" me or to secure poon with some hot girls. And to be honest, this is just a toxic rabbit hole and is rape strategy derived from lack of confidence, past failed relationships, insecurity, or simply being big - dicked in the club or out of a relationship. Nonetheless, be yourself. That is the most attractive thing a guy can do. Be yourself, let all those unique qualities shine that you possess and double down on who you and the value you can bring to this world. Be a beacon of hope for yourself, and do everything with love. That is what's preached in many of the books included in the sidebar, anyway. Do everything with love, kindness, and authenticity. You should not be thinking about shit tests, and approaching your relationships and social life like a puzzle you are trying to put together that results in copious amounts of sex. You know how you really have women chase you and "plate" themselves? When you really love yourself, don't NEED any specific women, and have authentic relationships with any of your women friends. They see this, they feel this, and they want you in their life. As long as you're not gay, you can have sex with as many of these women as you want. That is your paradigm you live in. You'll fuck your friends. Following trp will only cause you to one day realize that you have been lying to yourself and acting like a complete moron. Most of the world does not think this way. Yes, I have built some awesome habits and broadened my awareness; but no, let's not tell ourselves there's a blueprint to communication that'll lead to sex with women because that of and in itself is rape strategy. Rape is synonymous with robbery, stealing, lying, intrusion... you are taking something that's not actually yours. Don't enter this rabbit hole. You will find yourself shallow in the end and realize you were acting like a moron the whole time. Work on real confidence, through earning it, by building strong, authentic positive relationships, and accumulating wealth and status through meaningful or hard work. Ight, I'm out. mic drop.