Hey all,.

Im struggling to enforce a boundary properly other than that all is going well with LTR as she submits to me. Weve lived together for 3 years.

The boundary is around smoking weed, but specifically while at work. I feel work is a place to get shit done and weed is purely recreational for when the works done.

Recently she picked up a vaporizer and will now smoke it on her breaks.

Ive tried setting the boundary by letting her know it is something I view as wrong and then went and did my own thing. Leaving her with the info and the soft dread of oh noes he went out.

Ive also tried to position it as if shes a naughty girl she'll miss out on that great sex.

I dont know how else to get it through her head that I dont appreciate it apart from losing my temper and breaking it.