Like many other people here I read rationale male then the red pill handbook, alot of the stuff resonated with me.

Does anyone else look back at their dating history and realise they were a purple pill before their last relationship without reading any of this stuff?

The first time I got burned at 16, I was very much non-exclusive. Everything always went to shit once I was exclusive. I couldve been speaking to a girl for a year before I committed and then the relationship would be over in 2 months. Id have to take responsibility because they were always put on a pedastal at that point and ego is involved. I couldnt relax and be myself once they were mine.

I could have a FWB for years and not give a fuck if she was getting in with someone else, not bothered. Soon as its official it becomes a big deal.