So I’ve been red pilled for a little while. I try to hold my frame with women - its not always the most masculine but I never succumb to her frame. I sometimes do what she asks me to like hold her phone or do minor things but I make sure to let her know with some funny joke or witty response that I am not a tool for her to use and she should handle her shit by herself- ie if she complains about holding the groceries or holding bags I always respond with ‘babe I am just giving you the opportunity of exercising that you wanted’ or something of the sort.

The woman i am currently seeing - she was older. I am 20 and she is 41. She would always buy most things for me like food, alcohol etc. She would pay everywhere and I let her assertively know its normal through my Frame. I act like the prize so I never take her shit. However... I have a problem.

She and her friends have always been very abusive verbally towards each other.

One time during an disagreement she said “stop being a dickhead”. I said ‘excuse me?’ And left. I felt like that was disrespect.

She messaged me later on and I let her know that she got a lot of fellatio to give all the time as a way of coming back to me.

She did it. It was going great. However, she kept dancing with sly remarks back and fourth and its almost like she was constantly shit testing me. I kept putting off the fire by responding back and putting her into her place. Ie she says ‘the queue is very long’ i reply ‘Reminds you of my cock does it?’ And she would respond ‘well we will be up next then’ (Mind the fact, I dig her like nobody can. She always compliments me on sex and tells everyone how great I am) so i know it was a shit test.

But this kind of dancing was going back and fourth.

Today, we argued for the first time because she doesn’t enjoy giving fellatio. She says that she never had a problem with giving head but with me its like she can never do it right. I never validate her on that part.

I told her that if she naturally dont want to give head then there is a problem and we must have ran our course... because its not normal.

She started crying a little lowkey.

She kept trying to turn it on me but i kept shotting it down and stating that there must be an underlying issue. She then responded with ‘I think we might of ran our course then... there is no need to talk about this i think’ I agreed and left.

I don’t quite understand a lot of whats going on - would you be able to let me know how I am doing so far in your opinion?

I try my best and its my second proper try.

It was over in 3 weeks.

She knows I have options and she knows I know I have a big social circle

I dress very well imo I am very well built 217lbs 6”2 Tall and handsome I look masculine I act cocky and arrogant and she loves it

She was very submissive to me but sometimes would shit test me in ways i never knew a woman could. For example shit testing by saying she might put a ban on sex because (I literally fuck her till she is sore and senseless every time)

Her shit testing was getting to me because its like there was no break....

Quality feedback would be great