Last night I had a date with this really attractive girl (8.5/10 - not out of my league either) and things went great; she laughed at shit I said even if it wasn't very funny, actively listened to my stories and remembered details I'd previously told her, brushing my legs under the table with hers, etc. All signs led me to believe she was into me.
Prior to the date I didn't text her much - I went like 2 days without replying to her texts. As the date is ending I nonchalantly mentioned going back to one of our apartments and drink/smoke (she's into drinking and smoking), but she told me she already had plans to go to a birthday party for her friends who are twins. She is still in college so for her, Thursdays are for getting lit. I'm a recent grad with a full-time job, so I had to leave a little before midnight to go get some rest before work today.
We go our separate ways, and I haven't heard from her yet. We aren't friends on any social media so idk if she's ghosting me or waiting on me to make the next move. She's not the type to double text me and I had to make the first moves.
What I'm trying to figure out is if I should text her or wait for her to text me? And if I should text her, how long should I wait until I do text her?
I would like to see her again. I feel like I can make a move and get some. Could I get some advice?
Update: I never texted her, I got busy throughout the day and kind of forgot. She ended up texting me that night. Setting up another meeting for this week.
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