Basically I’ve been a beta most of my life. I would stay inside and always play video games. I’m 29 now with one kid with a girl I cannot stand. She’s young only 20 and extremely lazy and just downright disrespectful. When we get in fights she threatens to take our kid and claim I’m crazy in court. Anyways, I want out! I just don’t know how to go about it, I’m scared. Scared of what she might do when I tell her it’s over, and scared of not getting shared custody of our son.

How should I go about splitting? We’re not married so I don’t have to worry about divorce.

To add, I always pick crazy girls who have major issues. I don’t think there’s any being mature about it with her and I feel she will retaliate.