If females were to preceive you in the sense that they are attracted to you like a crush, does that mean that you exhibit a lot of beta traits? What I mean by this is if a female shows interest in the way like “he’s hot I want to make him my boyfriend” compared to “he’s hot I want to fuck him”.

It makes me question- am I too nice? Are these women perceiving me as a nice guy? Bc this is obviously not what I’d like to be preceived as.

An example is - went to a drive in, saw a young bubble butt chick (at least 18, maybe 20) she started some small talk with me. Part of me wanted to try her but let me just say this- it would be shitting to close to home.

Anyway after some pointless banter I handed her my card to pay for my shit and she hesitated (I could read that she was nervous as many women get in front of me) and said “ I will only give this card back to you...(pause as I wait to see what she is going to say) if you promise... to come back!

Was kind of surprised but I smiled and said ok have a good one. Sure I could have escalated. Obviously. But the reason outlying this post is not situational it is just questioning- am I still beta because of this? Would she not want to fuck Chad immediately?

Although I am in an ltr so I’m not particularly interested in trying to fuck everything I can I still keep my physique up and have goals both personal and financial that I strive hard to meet. I still strive to be Chad. I still want to be desired by women even though I may not be interested in trying to fuck them all.